In the last few years, the practice of dowry amongst the Sudanese people living in Australia seems to have lost it's true meaning. Dowry is essentially any goods, money, live stocks and other gifts/items which the family of the bride request from the future husband. However, money and live stocks are the most common form … Continue reading My experience with dowry as a Sudanese Australian and how I managed to pay less
Just a quick advice Consistency is so effective...... I woke up earlier than usual today and for some reason, I began scrolling through my messages between my miss's and I. I noticed how consistently we messaged each other "Good morning, how is your day, good night and I love you". Although these are basic things, … Continue reading Consistent or Consistenly Inconsistent In Your Relationship
In the western civilization it is easy to get married and easy to get divorced. The statement “I do” has become a statement of convenience instead of value--marriage is not valued enough, often resulting in divorce. Although, there are some countries in the Western society that aim to restrict divorce, they are still overly concerned … Continue reading Divorce replace death as endpoint of marriage—can the dowry system save the modern marital system of the West?
I am just curious, is dating just for white people? Have you ever wondered why African parents are so against their children dating? Is dating a taboo in the African culture? What is it about dating that is so wrong? I understand some parents are over protective, strict, think their children are not mature enough, … Continue reading Why Is Dating A Taboo For Most Africans?
Embrace your imperfections and grow stronger I don’t know about your relationship, but I love mine. Although sometimes we fight and disagree, my relationship has plenty of high vibes and here is why! I have been in the same relationship for eight years now and soon to be married! Upon reflection, my relationship, like most … Continue reading A high vibe relationship!
"True love is a priceless gift" This is it!! Write a poem for her too! Enjoy mine to her!!!! It was a real shocker When I met you at the soccer My mates didn't believe I had a chance So I was determined to ask you to dance Because I knew you were the one … Continue reading Do The Small Things That Will Attract Love To Your Relationship
Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com In the modern world, paying your dowry actually does not mean that you are married. Once you pay your dowry, you are than expected to have a "white wedding"—which can be quite costly (already in debt). If the people (modern day elders) know this fact to be true, why do … Continue reading What If I Can Not Afford The Dowry Price, Do I Break Up With My Love?
Today finding the right person to be with (for the long run) is quiet difficult. However, If you have already found the right person to be with congratulations to you—now put in the work to keep that relationship/marriage. It is a beautiful thing to be in the love game considering how hard it is to … Continue reading No matter how busy you may be, always make time for your girl—to hang, laugh and connect!
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